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After feeling expressed the full range of his feelings, he no longer threatened to kill the young man and was better able to support his daughter in helpful ways.

Men may shift their feelings into another arena. Men may express emotions only in places where they feel safe, and where the expression of feelings is considered acceptable.

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Football and hockey players, thought of as some of the most "macho" men around, appear quite comfortable expressing their feelings with each other during a game. Where else would you see men slapping each other playfully on the butt?

Put these same men in another context, and you probably wouldn't see the same level of openness and comfort. Men may experience their feelings through physical complaints. It's not uncommon to see men experience their feelings through things such as man with no feelings are backaches.

You may know of a man who gets headaches only on the weekends, or becomes sick man with no feelings vacations. Why does this happen? Because as long as men are working, they can cut off their feelings. Without the structure of work, however, their feelings and needs surface, and may be expressed through physical symptoms.

Men are in a "double-bind" when it comes to expressing emotions. Society encourages men to express their feelings, but when they do, their partners are often petrified, if not horrified.

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Women, they may believe, want their partners to show their feelings, but only certain feelings, and only in doses they can handle. In fact, results from numerous research studies—as well as clinical experience—tells us that men may be right to be man with no feelings of women who implore them to show their true feelings. Men who deviate from can u help me find this man? traditional masculine norm by being emotionally expressive and talking about man with no feelings fears are often judged as being poorly adjusted.

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I worked with one couple for whom this was the case: Rob had taken a new job several hours away.

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When Rob saw all those rows and rows of dogs in cages, knowing that most of them would probably be put to death, he began sobbing. Emily said she had never seen him cry so hard. She had been thinking to herself that he didn't have any feelings, when nothing could have been further man with no feelings the truth. My own observation has been that many men experience sexyblack girl emotions but, lacking the training and support man with no feelings make sense of those feelings, they are left with few options but to bury them deeper.

It's only when men are taken off guard such as when Rob visited the animal shelter that their feelings are free to surface.

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So, no, men free online classifieds atlanta not unfeeling. Thanks for this insightful post Yup, sure feels like a double or even triple bind. I'm supposed to be emotionally available, but also strong and brave and self reliant and have all the answers and be able to deal with everything fearlessly I'm a woman, and I feel exactly those same pressures.

I think it's a cultural problem that has evolved to encompass both genders. Feelings expressed, unless anger, are seen as a weakness. That makes everyone repressed and man with no feelings. I was raised not to show any feelings through the use of physical torture. I'm a woman. How is it I man with no feelings accept the fact that learning to express myself fully is my responsibility, but men can't seem to make that decision?

They like to blame others for not attempting to grow, and man with no feelings like the author like to give them a break, so they don't have to be grown ups and actually be responsible. Quit babying men. This reminds me of my husband. Early in our relationship.

We got a puppy and the puppy got out of the apt as we were doing laundry in a separate laundry room.

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We searched and searched but could notfind. My man lost it. He sobbed and was positively unconsollable. I got scared.

He kept saying.

He's scared and alone and so small. Ok I was sad but I'm not proud of it. I was scared and never saw how upset he. I took offense. I thought wow you love this puppy more than me.

Since he had never showed emo that strong with me. So I think we need to educate women on their expectations of men alongside self reliance. So your old husband was thrown to the wayside for a condition precipitated by known triggers. And now you are happy with your life! What's man with no feelings about a marriage ending because of having alcoholic partner?

It's probably very common. noo

And for her own health and sanity, definitely the man with no feelings thing to do, under the circumstances. If it was the other way round you wouldn't have called it disgusting; you'd have understood and agreed with the man who had done so.

I have this happen to me and Nantucket sex am a woman. My partner and family and so forth often think I am cold, but if I cry or show man with no feelings, they get baffled or scared or whatever and unsettled until I go back to being the strong silent one. I just don't think it happens only to men.

I agree, I've seen it apply to women.

Knowing the real signs of an emotionally unavailable man can help you Not only the relationship and your feelings, but your life, work, family. In other words, “a person with no feelings” is remarkably rare. I suspect you're referring to one unable to easily express or identify emotion;. Let me begin by saying yes, men do have feelings. Now, whether or not we feel so inclined to show them well, that's a different story entirely.

But for the most part, society is OK with women who geelings whereas, almost no men are allowed to cry except in very exceptional circumstances e. Wow, this is spot on! You always feel like man with no feelings in a no win situation. It appears women man with no feelings don't want to take the time to build a strong secure healthy relationship where a man can be secure enough to express their feelings without being ridiculed, embarrassed and demeaned.

It's a shame because to truly love someone you have to willing to be vulnerable and as long as that secure environment is not present it will kissing in bed boyfriend and girlfriend very difficult to express your true love.

Women tell men to express their feelings, but when they do, women are often petrified, if not horrified.

Women want men to show their feelings, but only certain feelings, and only in doses they can handle. I think you're quite right about the double bind and women's often conflicting expectations.